Lose Weight By Accident: Avoid the “FORGET IT” syndrome!

By Jamie Dougherty – Part #4 of the JamieLiving 5-Part Holiday Survival Guide

Catch up:
Part 1 – Buffer Your Beverages
Part 2 – Eat By Numbers

Part 3 – Join the One Plate Club
Part 4 – Bring Your Own

Have you ever experienced that moment, right after eating your fourth sugar cookie (which was preceded by 3 pieces of toffee fudge), where you say, “Forget it! Today’s eating is obviously ruined so I might as well eat everything in sight!” and then proceed to eat 3 more cookies, chips, an energy bar and a few French fries to live up and really go down in food flames? It’s a full-blown tailspin that feels crazy, out-of-control and so no fun! Believe me, I’ve been there too and it is NOT pretty.

Today’s holiday survival tip is the last in this amazing series and gets to the heart of what to do when we are about to be derailed by a single tasty treat. Is it really possible to save your day even if you’ve had too much double chocolate-chip cheesecake?

I say, heck-to-the-ya! All you’ve got to do is take each meal on its own merit. For example, let’s say you ate a giant, gooey apple fritter for breakfast. Not the ideal choice but rather than beating yourself up about it, counting how many calories you’ve got left for the day then throwing up your hands in despair and eating half the baker’s dozen you picked up for the office, take the indulgence for what it was and move on! Constant beratement only breaks us down, kills our inner strength and wills us to grab another mouthful of crap to sooth our wounded spirit. How deep and how true!
So the next time you indulge, enjoy it and know that all is not lost with one not-so-great choice. I promise you will be hungry again to catch up on your green veggies!

I’d love to hear your comments below on how taking each meal on its own merit helps you and what you do to calm yourself after a bad food bonanza.

Jamie G. Dougherty, founder of JamieLiving.com, gives women the secrets to feel amazing in their bodies and create the balance they crave between their busy schedules and eating well. Jamie believes that though kale and brown rice are good foods to put on your plate, until we truly learn HOW to eat rather than just WHAT to eat we will continue to be carb-craving, super-frazzled, stress-out ladies.If you ever feel hungry, stuck and unsatisfied with your food be sure to visit Jamie’s website to get her FREE 5-Step Guide to Fabulous. Seriously ladies, get ready for Jamie to rock your world!

WIN: An iPad 2, Manolos or a Rioja Wine Party for 20!

The perfect evening: Curled up on the couch next to a warm fire, just after 20 of your closest friends left a fabulous wine tasting party, hosted by you. You’re sipping a leftover glass of red; expensive party-hosting heels on the floor beside you, while strumming your fingers on your beautiful iPad 2. Well, if any part of this sounds appealing, read on. Rioja has a giveaway to get that fire started. Three lucky Spa Week winners will be able to select the prize of their choice!

If you’re not familiar with the wine company offering such an insanely awesome giveaway, here’s the scoop: Rioja harvests thousands of wines in Spain, aged at the winery so you don’t have to wait to enjoy them. Whether you’re an amateur or wine connoisseur, Rioja is one of the most respected and well known brands in the industry with an extensive selection, offering the perfect wine for every style and budget.

So, all you have to do is join the Rioja community and you’ll be entered to win. The only problem is… how will you EVER decide!?

CHOICE #1: an iPad 2

The hottest item on everyone’s holiday list and Rioja is giving you a chance to win one for free. Delicious.

CHOICE #2: Manolo Blahniks

A $750 gift certificate to Neiman Marcus will let you live out your Carrie Bradshaw dreams and get your hands on a coveted pair of Manolo Blahniks!

CHOICE #3: Wine Tasting Party for 20!

Ever want to invite 20 of your closest friends over for a fancy wine party? Choose this option and let Rioja host a party for you. A Rioja team member will come to your home and bring wine and appetizers for your guests to enjoy. They’ll help turn you into wine connoisseur, educating you about delicious Riojas.

Sign up to win here.

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Wedding Wednesday: Thank You J. Crew

Congratulations, you’ve been asked to be a bridesmaid! Uh oh… what’s the dress going to look like? That is immediately what comes to a woman’s mind when she’s invited to be in a bridal party. Of course you are overwhelmed with joy for your newly engaged best friend or random relative, but you can’t help but wonder, “how much am I going to waste on this thing I only wear once?” Well, J. Crew sympathizes and has designed the solution to the ugly bridesmaid dress dilemma – so long as your bride is for it.

J. Crew’s Holiday Wedding & Parties Collection features beautiful dresses for a stroll down the aisle… and then dancing all night in at your company holiday party. Here are some dresses you’ll love wearing way more than once:

Gabby Dress

This strapless cotton taffeta dress was recently featured on the ABC comedy “Happy Endings.” She wore it to an event rather than a wedding!

Kayla Dress

An A-line dress is flattering on all body shapes. Plus, how amazing is this Bright Dahlia color?

Marguerite Dress

This silk charmeuse dress comes in classic colors that you are sure to get many wears out of.

Louisa Dress

Does anything sound more luxurious to wear than silk chiffon? I think not. It’s available in a lot of fun, bright colors to party the night away.

I’d be ecstatic if a bride asked me to wear this! I’m a sucker for anything sequin and definitely would wear this beauty more than once.